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"If there is anything we wish to change in a child, we should first see if it is not something that could better be changed in ourselves."

- Carl Jung

"A man's character is his destiny."

- Heraclitus

"A child is a person who is going to carry on what you have started. He is going to sit where you are sitting, and when you are gone, attend to those things which you think are important. You may adopt all the policies you please, but how they are carried out depends on him. He will assume control of your cities, states and nations. He is going to move in and take over your churches, schools, universities, and corporations. All your books are going to be judged, praised or condemned by him. The fate of humanity is in his hands."

- Abraham Lincoln

"Nothing in the world is more dangerous
than a sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity."

- Martin Luther King, Jr.
Strength and Love

"Schools may be erected, East, West, North, and South; pupils be taught, and masters reared, by scores upon scores of thousands; colleges may thrive, churches may be crammed, temperance may be diffused, and advancing knowledge in all other forms walk through the land with giant strides: but while the newspaper press of America is in, or near, its present abject state, high moral improvement in that country is hopeless. Year by year, it must and will go back; year by year, the tone of public feeling must sink lower down; year by year, the Congress and the Senate must become of less account before all decent men; and year by year, the memory of the Great Fathers of the Revolution must be outraged more and more, in the bad life of their degenerate child.

Among the herd of journals which are published in the States, there are some, the reader scarcely need be told, of character and credit. From personal intercourse with accomplished gentlemen connected with publications of this class, I have derived both pleasure and profit. But the name of these is Few, and of the others Legion; and the influence of the good is powerless to counteract the mortal poison of the bad. "

- Charles Dickens; "American Notes"; 1842.

"... in the Golden Rule of Jesus of Nazareth, we read the complete spirit of the ethics of Utility; utility would enjoin, first, that laws and social arrangements should place the happiness, ... or the interest of every individual, as nearly as possible in harmony with the interest of the whole; and secondly, that education and opinion, which have so vast a power over human character, should so use that power as to establish in the mind of every individual an indissolvable association between his own happiness and the good of the whole ... so that a direct impulse to promote the general good may be in every individual one of the habitual motives of action... ."

John Stuart Mill; "Utilitarianism"; 1863.

"But we must not follow those who advise us, being men, to think of human beings, and being mortal, of mortal things, but must, so far as we can, make ourselves immortal, and strain every nerve to live in accordance with the best thing in us; for even if it be small in bulk, much more does it in power and worth surpass everything ... And what we said before will apply now; that which is proper to each thing is by nature best and most pleasant for each thing; for man therefore, the life according to reason is best and pleasantest, since reason more than anything else is man. This life therefore is also the happiest."

- Aristotle; "Nichomachean Ethics"; ca. 355 B.C.

"Two things fill the mind with ever new and increasing admiration and awe; the starry heavens above and the moral law within."

"So act as to treat humanity, whether in thine own person or in that of any other, in every case as an end withal, never as a means only."

- Immanuel Kant; "Kant's Critique ..."; ca. 1760.

"In every man there is something which to a certain degree prevents him from becoming perfectly transparent to himself; and this may be the case in so high a degree, he may be so inexplicably woven into relationships of life which extend far beyond himself that he almost cannot reveal himself. But he who cannot reveal himself cannot love, and he who cannot love is the most unhappy man of all."

- Soren Kierkegaard; "Either/Or"; 1843.

Evil has no independent existence, but is always parasitic upon good, which alone has substantial being. Man's sin consists not in choosing positive evil, but in turning away from the higher good, God: "For when the will abandons what is above itself, and turns to what is lower, it becomes evil - not because that is evil to which it turns, but because the turning itself is wicked."

- St. Augustine; "Free Will"; ca. 400 A.D.

"Thanks, Fortune; after all my crosses you give me somewhat to repair myself. This armour was bequeathed to me by my dead father, for whose dear sake I have so loved it that whithersoever I went, I still have kept it by me, and the rough sea that parted it from me, having now become calm, hath given it back again, for which I thank it for, since I have my father's gift again, I think my shipwreck no misfortune."

- William Shakespear; "Pericles, Prince of Tyre"; 1609

The average age of the world's greatest civilizations has been two hundred years. These nations have progressed through this sequence: From bondage to spiritual faith; from spiritual faith to great courage; from courage to liberty; from liberty to abundance; from abundance to selfishness; from selfishness to complacency; from complacency to apathy; from apathy to dependence; from dependence back again to bondage.

- Fraser Tyler, English historian -
written while the U.S. was still a British colony.

"The penalty good men pay for indifference to public affairs is to be ruled by evil men."

- Plato attributed

"When bad men combine, the good must associate;
else they will fall one by one, an unpitied sacrifice
in a contemptible struggle."

- Edmund Burke

"Two things fill the mind with ever increasing wonder and awe. The more often and the more intensely the mind of thought is drawn to them: the starry heavens above me and the moral law within me. Morality is not properly the doctrine of how we may make ourselves happy, but how we may make ourselves worthy of happiness."

- Immanuel Kant

Power is inflicting pain and humiliation.
Power is in tearing human minds to pieces and putting them together
in new shapes of our own choosing.

- George Orwell
1984

But in the long run - believe me, for I know - the action of the United States will be dictated, not by methodical calculations of profit and loss, but by moral sentiment, and by that gleaming flash of resolve which lifts the hearts of men and nations, and springs from the spiritual foundations of human life itself.

- Sir Winston Churchill
    27th April, 1941
"Westward, Look, The Land is Bright"


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