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Whether the particular parents of the particular young killers
who committed this particular massacre had knowledge in advance that
would make them criminally liable is something for a court of law to
decide. What is at issue is whether parents in general should be
held legally liable for their children's acts.
Responsibility and control go together. For decades now, our laws
and our educational system have consistently undermined parental
authority. Yet new legal responsibilities for parents are being
proposed after parental control has been eroded.
Preschoolers are taught that their parents have no right to spank
them. All sorts of propaganda programs in the schools -- from
so-called "drug prevention" to "sex education" -- stress that each
individual makes his or her own decisions, independently of parental
or societal values.
Most people have no idea how pervasive and unremitting are the
efforts to drive a wedge between children and their parents and to
replace parental influence with the influence of teachers,
counselors and even the children's similarly immature peers. Many of
the books, movies, and other materials used in the public schools
mock parents as old windbags who are behind the times.
"Trust-building" exercises teach students to rely on their
classmates.
Handing out condoms in school and giving girls abortions behind
their parents' backs are just isolated manifestations of this
underlying philosophy, which reaches far beyond sexual matters. Nor
are these just idiosyncrasies of particular teachers or schools.
There are nationwide networks -- some of them government-sponsored
-- which have disseminated pre-packaged programs designed to wean
school children away from the values with which they have been
raised and mold them to the values of self-anointed agents of
"change."
The materials used and the things said in these materials would
simply have to be seen to be believed. I certainly would never have
imagined such things before doing research for my book "Inside
American Education." My assistant said she had trouble sleeping
after seeing some of the movies shown to school children.
Invasions of family privacy with diary assignments and other
intrusions are all part of the same mindset. So are groups like the
so-called Children's Defense Fund, which seek legal powers to impose
their notions of how children should be raised. Hillary Clinton's
pious hokum that "it takes a village" to raise a child is more of
the same.
What all these efforts have in common, aside from an arrogant
presumption of superiority, is a drive for power without
responsibility. They don't even take responsibility for their own
activities, which are hidden, denied or camouflaged. Above all, they
are not prepared to be held accountable for the consequences of
their playing with children's minds.
Columbine High School was in the news long before the recent
tragic shootings there. It was featured in a "20/20" broadcast about
"death education" back in 1991. This macabre subject is one of the
endless procession of brainwashing programs that are taking up time
sorely needed for academic work in schools across the country. One
of the Columbine students who is now grown blames the course's
morbid preoccupation with death for her own unsuccessful attempt at
suicide.
Zealots who are pushing New Age notions of death under the guise
of "education" are undeterred by parental protests that their
children are having nightmares or depression. The "educators" who
have been on a brainwashing ego trip have done their best to cover
their own tracks.
Manuals accompanying some of these programs show how to evade and
mislead parents and the public.
Running through all these programs is the notion that morality is
optional: If it feels good to you, do it!
We will never know how good it felt to those young killers to
shoot down those around them. Nor can we know how much the school's
own reckless experiments with brainwashing contributed to the
tragedy.
But it is truly galling to have those who have been undermining
both morality and parents for years now demand that parents be held
legally responsible for the acts of their children.
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