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THE NATURAL LAW OF CHRISTMAS

by Maggie Gallagher

I DON'T know what it is about the hurly-burly of Christmas that makes me so reflective. Certainly the arrival of God's son should be reason enough, but for me it's the much-derided tinsel trappings -- the fragments of Bing Crosby's voice, the astonishment of a house outlined in an explosion of color, a cyber-house of light scratched into the leafless night -- that send me a little unexpected stab of causeless joy, that lead me to ponder first causes.

So perhaps it's not so unnatural that, after a mad dash of last-minute shopping (a dozen CDs, a cookbook and enough Power Rangers to defend two galaxies, thanks for asking), I found myself in the bookstore cafe, pondering "why natural law is staging a comeback."

That's the subtitle of an illuminating essay in The Weekly Standard by the mysteriously named "J." Budziszewski about the resurgence of objective moral truth.

As "J." puts it, "There are some moral truths ... a normal human is unable not to know." In the last two years, no less than 26 books with the word "Natural Law" in the title have been published. Of course, before you can have a renaissance, there must first have been a senescence. In this century, moral truth came under attack from philosophers who pointed out that, try however hard you might, you can't huff and puff an "is" into an "ought."

Faced with these intellectual difficulties, and even more with the desire to have sex as they will, the intellectually powerful among us have agreed to talk as if moral truth does not exist. It turns out this is impossible for any sane human being, which may be the biggest reason why moral truth is making a comeback. The same people who say in one breath, "There is no moral truth," want very much to say in the next that, therefore, "It's wrong to impose your morality on other people." Voila! A new "ought" conjured up mysteriously from an "is."

Nietzsche was perhaps one of the few thinkers who consistently followed the absence of truth to where it logically leads: If moral truth isn't objective, you may impose your morality on as many people as you can. And Nietzsche ended up kissing a horse.

Most of sin is a kind of induced irrationality; an attempt to have our cake and eat it too, like the alcoholic who makes himself believe he can have sobriety and one last scotch as well. Who in their right mind would really prefer momentary lust to true love, for example, or the escape hatch of a lie to the joy of knowing you are trustworthy?

The learned new books offer complicated argument to overcome our contemporary reluctance to see morality as either true or false. This curious reticence reached its zenith in the 1992 Planned Parenthood vs. Casey decision, where the Supreme Court, losing faith in "self-evident" truths, asserted a newfangled "right to define one's own concept of existence, of meaning, of the universe, and of the mystery of human life."

How many lies do you have to tell yourself before such a claim can even seem plausible? The right to a personally defined moral code is based on an adolescent fantasy of who we really are. Increasingly, it seems to me, the fountainhead of morality is gratitude: recognizing the simple truth of what we did not make ourselves. Our life is a gift of others living and dead, who have created the world we enjoy, and which we will pass on either enlarged or diminished. We were loved into loving, smiled into smiling, begotten into the mystery of being.

Which, in my own meandering way, takes me not so very far, after all, from the babe in the manger whose 2,000th birthday we celebrate this year.

E-mail: GallagherIAV@Yahoo.com

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Gallagher's first book, Enemies of Eros: How the Sexual Revolution is Killing Family, Marriage and Sex, was published by Bonus Books in 1989. Judge Robert Bork called it "lucid, witty, profound, devastating," and George Gilder pronounced it "the best book ever written on men, women and marriage."

Currently an affiliate scholar at the Institute for American Values, Gallagher has worked as an article editor of National Review, senior editor of the Manhattan Institute's City Journal, and as a senior fellow at the Center for Social Thought.

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