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Advice For Kids From "MizScarlet" at Scarleteen.com
June 1, 2000
The
Washington Times
Shepherd Smith
You're a sailor crossing the
Atlantic on a solo crossing. The Global Positioning System is
broken, as are your wireless satellite e-mail and phone. The maps
have been washed overboard. Clouds hide the North Star. Sharks are
following, sensing dinner. Now you know what it must be like to be
10, or 12 or 16 years old
today.
Adults, who are supposed to
be the navigational tools for young people, are walking off the job,
shutting down their guidance systems, seemingly everywhere we look.
The American Bar Association (ABA) promotes needle exchange despite
science that says it doesn't work. People for the Ethical Treatment
of Animals (PETA) tells college students that drinking beer is
healthier, more socially responsible than drinking milk.
Professional athletes, even college athletes, fill the sports pages
with stories of criminal or unethical behavior. Television shows
make promiscuous sex, smoking and drinking look glamorous and
risk-free.
The ABA is just the
latest respected institution to choose a political agenda in direct
contradiction of the scientific evidence at great cost to kids. They
claim needle exchange programs reduce HIV transmission. They claim
these programs don't increase drug use. They suggest that people
hooked on heroin and cocaine are responsible adults who won't share
needles. They are absolutely wrong. But that, and the fact that they
are sending a dangerous message to young people, doesn't seem to
matter to the ABA.
A comprehensive
review of published studies fails to support the supposed success of
needle exchange programs in preventing HIV transmission. Indeed, the
largest studies conducted to date show just the opposite. In
Montreal, 1,600 addicts participating in the needle exchange program
were tested every six months for, on average, 22 months.
Participants were found to be sharing needles. They were also 3
times likelier to become infected with HIV as addicts not in the
program, the Reader's Digest
reports.
Likewise, a study in
Vancouver of more than 1,000 needle exchangers, published in the
journal AIDS, found participating in the program was a predictor,
along with other variables, for a positive HIV
test.
Is it asking too much of the
adults setting policies to take a moment and ponder what message
they are sending young people? Clearly nobody at the ABA did so.
Clearly nobody at PETA did so. They launched an advertising campaign
targeting college students, saying beer is healthier than milk and
suggesting they don't drink milk because that means cows have to be
milked, and, PETA says, cows don't seem to like being milked. That
would be laughable, if it weren't so darn
dangerous.
Drinking milk isn't
connected to other risk behaviors, such as sexual activity, drugs,
smoking and violence. Young people aren't killed in car crashes
because the driver drank too much milk. Alcohol can kill college
students. Milk can't. It's illegal for most college students to
drink beer. It's legal to drink milk. And yet, there we saw it:
posters all over college campuses asking, "Got
Beer?"
If it were just that these
actions by the ABA and PETA were unique, poorly conceived ideas, I
wouldn't be quite so upset. Unfortunately, they are just two more
examples of the disturbing trend of adults abdicating responsibility
to youth. Open the sports pages, go to the movies, or simply turn on
the television in your living room for further
proof.
Story No. 1 in the sports
section is as likely to be another account of a professional athlete
being suspended for drug abuse, arrested for battering his wife or
even jailed on suspicion of murder as it is a story about an actual
game. Given the behavior of many athletes, parents often have to
monitor ESPN's SportsCenter as if it were HBO's "The Sopranos." Yet
the sports leagues themselves usually respond with a slap on the
wrist and a welcome back after an obligatory suspension. In the case
of hateful Atlanta pitcher John Rocker, the response was a little
bit of counseling.
Meanwhile,
Hollywood makes risk-taking behavior look cool. A recent study found
that prime-time television rarely portrays the real life
consequences of unhealthy behavior, such as the all-too-common
occurrence of contracting a dangerous sexually transmitted infection
as a teen-ager.
It all adds up to a
world of adults who don't understand the ramifications of their
actions, who are giving young people permission to participate in
unhealthy behaviors that can permanently scar their futures. We
adults need to realize the important responsibility we have as role
models. Like it or not, we are the compass and the navigational
system young people must have to steer successfully into
adulthood.
When kids look around,
it is enough to make them ask, Where are the adults when we need
them?
Shepherd Smith is founder and president of the Institute for Youth Development.
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