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Needed - A Dose of Ex-Laxity
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by John Rosemond I've
always thought investigative reporter Ed Bradley ("60 Minutes") made
reasonably good sense, even on those occasions when I've disagreed
with him. Not this time, however. Asked by CNN's Larry King why
school shootings have always occurred in suburban or small town
schools (i.e., Littleton, CO) rather than inner city schools,
Bradley said there are more guns in our suburbs and small towns.
Given the problem of unregistered guns, there's no way of knowing
whether that's true or not.
What Bradley was disingenuously attempting to do, of course, was
promote public acceptance of the politically correct notion that
school shootings are the result of lax gun control-that they're a
Second Amendment problem. I'd love to ask Bradley to please explain
why although most 19th Century American children had easy access to
guns, no record exists of a child in the 1800s going on a shooting
rampage in his school or community. In fact, such incidents have
only taken place in the late-20th Century, during which gun control
laws have been stricter than ever.
King's better question would have been, "Why have all these
shootings taken place in public as opposed to private or church-run
schools?" The answer is definitely not that upper-middle class
and/or church-going Americans own relatively few guns. Rather,
private and church-run schools are legally able to expel the budding
sociopath, something public schools can no longer do. Courtesy of
the American Civil Liberties Union and other like-minded elements of
our society, public schools are helpless to do anything about
anti-social children but "counsel" them. Unfortunately, there is no
evidence that talking to a sociopath does anything but waste some
well-intentioned person's time.
Private and church-run schools can also provide an education in
moral foundations. Once upon a not-so-long-ago time, public schools
could do likewise. Then someone decided that talking to children
about God was toxic speech. In today's public schools, teachers can
discuss every conceivable sexual subject. But God? Hush!
The same deconstructionist elements mentioned above are
responsible for the fact that "freedom of speech" now includes the
"right" of a child to express disaffection and disrespect by
parading down the halls of a taxpayer-funded school wearing a black
trench coat adorned with a swastika and an armband proclaiming "I
hate people."
Mental health professionals aided and abetted the secular left by
devising a bogus self-esteem culture that has turned public schools
as well as many homes into virtual "no punishment zones" where
children learn that adults do essentially nothing about misbehavior
except wag their jaws. By Grandma's standards, many of today's
children are getting away with "murder" long before adolescence,
courtesy of parents and teachers who have digested 30-plus years of
professional psychobabble to the effect that punishment causes
shame, thereby damaging self-esteem. The latest research into
"feeling special" tells what common sense should have told us all
along; namely, that high self-esteem is synonymous with narcissism,
and that narcissists are highly prone to violence when they feel
unfairly treated. Meanwhile, we have yet to find a better way of
dealing with misbehavior than to punish it.
No, the recent tragedy in Littleton is not symptomatic of lax gun
control, but rather lax parents, lax schools, lax discipline, lax
standards, lax expectations, and a culture which has become lax to
the point of virtual indifference when it comes to morals, personal
responsibility, and critical thinking. Don't let anyone convince you
otherwise.
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