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Letter to Dr. Laura:
Recently you requested input for a new book you're writing on
Ten Stupid Things Parents Do To Mess Up Their Children's
Lives. I know there are many serious problems you want to
address arising from lack of parenting, loss of morality, and
breakdown of the family. There is another one, however, that I
wanted to bring to your attention and hope I may be able to persuade
you to champion. From my pediatrician's perspective, among the many
destructive things we are doing to our children, perpetuating the
myth of ADD/ADHD ranks very high. Please read a book published earlier this year by Peter Breggin,
M.D. entitled Talking Back to Ritalin & What doctors aren't
telling you about stimulants for children. Some three million
children in this country daily take methylphenidate or Ritalin, a
drug very similar to cocaine in chemical composition and effect, on
the totally false premise that they have a "brain disorder." As Dr.
Breggin explains in his book, there is not a shared of evidence that
any such disorder exists, but lots of people, including
pharmaceutical manufacturers, pediatricians, psychologists,
psychiatrists, and schools, are making tons of money pushing drugs
on children. Children are labeled ADD/ADHD and told they are defective on the
basis of nothing more than symptoms rated on a subjective scale. An
often overlooked fact is that tow adults "rating" a child will come
up with totally different assessments. The spurious "diagnosis" is
made on the basis of multiple vague complaints like "Fails to finish
things he/she starts, Can't concentrate, Can't pay attention for
long. Daydreams or gets lost in his/her thoughts, Difficulty
following directions, Messy work, Inattentive, Easily distracted,
Can't sit still, restless, or hyperactive, Fidgets, Impulsive or
acts without thinking, Talks out of turn, Talks too much." Based on
things you've said on your show about your childhood, it's possible
that if you were in school now, you might be labeled ADD! Certainly
we know that Einstein would have been. The constellation of behaviors (excess energy, fidgeting, and
lack of interest) said to make up this fictitious disorder are an
effect, not a cause. They are a reaction to conflict, boredom, and a
failure to meet the needs of the child. Many times this behavior
stems from the issues you deal with daily on your show - absent
parents, divorce, abuse, drugs, violence, etc. It's much easier,
however, for adults to label the child the problem rather than
confront their own responsibility in creating or perpetuating the
hostile or inappropriate environment the child struggles with. Ritalin and the other drugs that are prescribed make children
more docile and more compliant because they are spaced out on
powerful psycho-active drugs. Every one of these drugs has the
potential for severe toxicity including psychosis, which is well
documented in the literature. As you may know from many media
reports, school children are snorting and shooting up Ritalin, a
chemical cousin of amphetamine or speed, to get high, and it's a
favorite black market drug. What disorder do you know of that is diagnosed on the basis of
symptoms? We might as well call a combination of headaches, stomach
aches, and muscle aches and pains a disorder. Furthermore, these
symptoms change depending on the situation the child is in. What
kind of a "disorder" is it that manifests only in certain teachers'
classes, when a certain parent is or is not around, and that allows
a child to play complex Nintendo games for five hours but prevents
him or her from completing a math assignment or paying attention in
geography class? What sort of a disorder is it that has been "cured" by hypnosis,
visualization, magnets, biofeedback, inner ear retraining with high
frequency sounds, acupuncture, change of school, change of teacher,
change of seat, Feingold diet, homeopathy, craniosacral therapy,
social skills training, family counseling, remarriage, different
approaches to parenting and discipline, and prayer? Please read Dr. Breggin's book. I know that as a professional of
great integrity, you're always open to new learning. I sense from
things you've said on your show that you have had doubts about the
reality of ADD/ADHD. I think you will find abundant proof that it
does not exist, but that the diagnosis and treatment of this
non-entity is doing irreparable harm to our precious children. I can
think of few stupider things being done by organized medicine and
bought into by parents which is messing up so many children's lives.
I'm enclosing for your information a summary of points made in Dr.
Breggin's book. I'm also faxing you two wonderful articles on techniques for
dealing wisely, effectively, humorously, and creatively with kids. I
have no idea what our book will be like, but you may find a place to
include these marvelous tips. Bless you for the courage you show us daily in what you do. Sincerely, Nora C. Porter, M.D. |
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