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Christ The jibe reflects the teachings of Sigmund Freud; that belief in
God is nothing more than wish fulfillment, a projection of a
childish need for security.
But now a psychologist is turning the tables on Freud's
followers. It turns out that Freud's teachings were based not on
psychoanalytical evidence, but on his personal hostility towards
religion.
What do Dietrich Bonhoffer, Albert Schweitzer, and All of them were prominent Christians of the last In his new book, Faith of the Fatherless, To find the answer, Vitz compared the family For example, Blaise Pascal, the great French John Henry Newman, the Catholic cardinal, also had
a Alexis de Tocqueville, French aristocrat and William Wilberforce is known as Britain's great G.K. Chesterton, the Christian apologist, was deeply Dietrich Bonhoffer, the German theologian who was executed by
Hitler, also came from a loving home. His father was a major
presence in the lives of his children, whom he treated with respect
and affection, Vitz writes.
The great missionary to Africa, Albert Schweitzer, called his
father "my dearest friend." Karl Barth, the Swiss-German theologian,
also enjoyed a close relationship with his father.
In light of Vitz's research, the importance of good fathering can
hardly be overstated. His book helps us understand why scripture
commands fathers to provide diligent spiritual leadership to their
children -- and why, in Ephesians, fathers are specifically
instructed to avoid provoking their children to anger.
Breakpoint
By Charles
Colson
01/06/2000
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article.
"Religion is nothing but a crutch." How often have we heard that
sneer directed at the faithful?
G.K.
Chesterton have in common?
century.
But these champions of our Heavenly Father
had something else in
common, as well: All had
exceptionally close relationships with
their
earthly fathers.
psychologist Paul
Vitz says he initially set out to
examine the lives of prominent
atheists of the last
four centuries. He discovered that all had
fathers
who were weak, abusive, missing, or dead. But then
he
began to wonder: Was it possible that what appears
to modern eyes
to be defective fathering simply
reflected the social conditions
of the time?
conditions of
prominent atheists to those of
prominent theists from the same
period. What he
found is startling: Every theist he studied had
a
strong and tender bond with his father, or with a
father
substitute. And as adults, these men became
known for taking on
the intellectual forces of
atheism.
philosopher and
mathematician, was home-schooled by
his Catholic father. Their
relationship was close
and affectionate. As an adult, Vitz
writes, Pascal
wrote "a powerful and imaginative defense
of
Christianity."
life-long, loving relationship with his father. Vitz
notes
that Newman developed a "clear and critical
understanding of
modernism," and wrote rational
responses to it.
author of
Democracy in America, loved his father
deeply. Tocqueville argued
that religion is
absolutely necessary in the public life of a
nation--
a view that was, Vitz writes, "really quite
unusual"
at a time when atheistic views of culture
"were
becoming standard in Europe."
Christian
abolitionist, but few people know he was
also a devoted dad.
When his son Samuel was away
at school, Wilberforce found time
to write him
more than 600 letters in which he poured out his
love. Samuel later became a bishop who was
"well-known as
one of the major debaters in the
conflict . . . over Darwinian
evolutionary
theory," Vitz writes.
attached
to his father, who was Chesterton's constant
companion when he
was a child.
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