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by Cathy Young
Ms. magazine has turned 25 years old. Its rather turbulent life
includes a death in 1989 and an ad-free rebirth in 1990, with a
present-day subscription base of about 200,000. To the extent that
the feminist movement has an official voice, Ms. is it.
Over the years, Ms. has explored many important
issues and published articles about many fascinating women of the
past and present. But the magazine also confirms - particularly in
its post-1990 incarnation - a lot of stereotypes about feminism.
Take the notion that feminism is an intolerant
orthodoxy. A 1993 cover of Ms. proclaimed, "No, Feminists Don't All
Think Alike." If only the cover story - a conversation among Gloria
Steinem, Naomi Wolf, Bell Hooks and Urvashi Vaid - had matched the
headline.
True, there was some disagreement about tactics
(e.g., is it OK to use the "capitalist" media to reach mainstream
audiences). And Wolf suggested that many women were alienated from
feminism by fear that they would be harshly judged for their
heterosexual habits. But all seemed to agree that American women
live under "sexist oppression" and need a "left, revolutionary
movement." Wolf heatedly denied being a centrist. No one questioned
Hooks' praise for communist Angela Davis as a heroine for
"revolutionary feminism."
Two years later, Ms. attacked feminists who really
don't think alike - who, for example, question the ever-expanding
definition of rape - as "pod feminists," as in Invasion of the Body
Snatchers.
Or take the charge that feminism is dominated by
the lunatic fringe. All-sex-is-rape feminist Andrea Dworkin - and
they don't get much loonier or more fringe than that - can usually
count on a platform in Ms. But Ms. forays into weirdness certainly
don't end there. In 1995, the magazine ran a glowing profile of
writer and self-proclaimed witch Zsuszanna Budapest, whose books
recommend using hexes, herbs and magical symbols at work to "manage
an unruly computer," get a raise or punish a sexual harasser.
Ms. also embraces the notion that many children,
especially girls, are victimized by ritual sexual abuse in Satanic
cults. While investigations have failed to uncover any evidence of
such cults, this did not stop Ms. from publishing a 1993 cover story
by an anonymous "survivor" claiming that she was abused in a cult
while her baby sister, delivered in secret (somehow, no one noticed
her mother was pregnant), was sacrificed and eaten.
Finally, take the charge that feminists are
anti-male. In a 1990 article titled "Delusions of Safety," Marcia
Ann Gillespie, now the editor of Ms., reminds women that "your
husband, lover, son or brother may be a terrorist in waiting." A
1991 article asserts that "interaction with men is hazardous for
women" because all men have internalized oppressive, misogynist
values to one degree or another. The "nice men" are by far the most
dangerous, warns author Kay Leigh Hagan, because they "allow us to
slip into denial." Denial is exhibited by any woman who believes
that "my father/husband/dentist is not 'that way.'"
Since 1991, virtually every article I've been able
to find in Ms. about fatherhood deals with physically or sexually
abusive fathers.
By the way, Ms. also has published articles
wondering why many young women are wary of identifying themselves as
feminists. Any clues?
Cathy Young is vice-president of the Women's Freedom Network.
Her column is published on Tuesday. You may write her at The Detroit
News, Editorial Page, 615 W. Lafayette, Detroit, Mich. 48226. Her
e-mail address is 71774.1305@compuserve.com. |
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